Seven things singles do when tired of being called "single"
This happens all the time. When a guy or a girl is tired of staying alone or "testing", they do most or all of the following subconsciously;
1. Expectantly call every unknown number they missed.
Have you been there before? People do it BUT among those that are termed "Single & Searching", it's on the high. Her voice changesHe calls back, hoping to hear a girl's voice. If it's a guy (hardware), voicemail lo wa!
2. Attend every church meeting
I've met some who weren't serious with church activities before until they start getting to 27. Hmm, it's well. The guys, theirs is 30-33. They join the units with lots of girls like...
3. Fantasizing or playacting the meeting of their future spouse
You hear them say, " this is how I'm going to tell people we met each other"; maybe in a bus or a keke. Every outing is a call to fantasize: Is this gonna be the day? Eeyah, it is on the way.
4. Carrying other women's babies here and there
Carrying other people's babies become a hobby especially when those babies are "sweet", you know what I mean. Not the "cry-cry" ones o; that's what I mean.
5. Kissing their lil cousins or nephew, in a kinda way
Especially the emotional ones, they make a sport out of lip-kissing lil children in a playful manner. Please, biko, let's not expose these innocent ones to what we know nothing about. Cheeks, forehead, yes! Lips, No! That's a No-Go area. If you must do that, get yourself a mate.
6. Displaying bbm pins on social media
Well, while this is okay, sometimes, it has proven abortive as some folks lack the maturity to handle friendship in such a way that no one gets hurt. Most times, greed and lustful desires end up thwarting what could have been.
7. Frequently attending wedding ceremonies and all kinds of gatherings
Even burial ceremonies o! Lol! He/she can just be anywhere.
Being single is not a 'curse'. I believe, it's a time to really explore one's self and mind towards the future. Don't rush or hurry any relationship into marriage.
Do your best part and leave the rest. You can't force a guy or a girl to love you when there are over 100 people that wants to buy your 100 friends suya just to get your number. Take a chill pill!
The future is bright.
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